FAQ

To begin your journey, we'll first connect via a video call. This allows us to sense each other's energy and align our expectations. Following a mutually positive interaction, I'll send you a Google form to complete. This form delves deeper into the specific boundaries and desires I should be aware of. After reviewing your responses, we'll schedule the session.

Upon arrival, you'll be welcomed into my spacious, air-conditioned space. I'll prepare tea, and we'll converse on my sea-facing balcony, revisiting the details from the form. There might be additional questions from my end, aimed at clarifying any uncertainties and ensuring a fulfilling session. 

I'll perform a brief sage smudging ceremony to clear the energy and seek your permission to guide the power dynamics for our time together. Next, you'll have privacy to change and prepare. From that point, I will take the lead, ensuring your mental and physical safety, with periodic check-ins throughout. The ambiance can be serene with dim lighting and ambient music, or more dynamic, depending on the nature of our session.  

As we conclude, we'll transition to aftercare, which includes what we agreed on beforehand to support you. I'll give you time to process the experience in your own space, while I sit beside you, offering a supportive and strong masculine presence. When it's time, I'll gently bring you back. I'll have tea prepared and will be open to any reflections you wish to share.

• You should eat at least an hour before, as you would before a workout. 
• Be well-hydrated, and go to the bathroom before we start.
• Maintaining good hygiene is crucial when working closely together.
• If you are a smoker, please wash your face and hands before our session. 

Since we’re working with sexuality, sexual arousal could occur. Before our session, we will discuss what kind of pain and pleasure we are open to working with, and I will stay within these boundaries. FYI, I remain fully dressed and do not receive any sexual pleasure.

I may consider requests when discussing boundaries, but NEVER during the session. I am responsible for holding the boundaries throughout the experience, allowing my clients to feel completely at ease, free from being on guard, and able to let go entirely.

Ideally, you will wear tight-fitting stretchy clothing, lingerie, or underwear. Your clothes mustn’t bunch up too much because it can potentially create difficult-to-manage pressure points. Avoid clothing that restricts movement.

Hygiene protocols will be implemented to ensure cleanliness and safety. 

 I allocate a total of three hours for each session, covering our introductory chat, the active session, and aftercare. 

I care deeply about financial inclusiveness, so I offer my single sessions on a sliding scale from $350 - $650, depending on your situation.